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April 2, 2010 Recently, I took him to McDonald’s and the play place was temporarily closed. Two months ago he would have had a massive melt down and we would have had to drag him kicking and screaming from the restaurant. This time he smiled at me and said "we have to wait.” He also said this to another child and we waited 45 minutes for them to open the play place and we had a great time. I am not afraid to take him grocery shopping anymore. When people say hello to him in the store, he smiles and says "hi" back. One of the big changes is that Ken now loves to sit on my lap and read books. He enjoys looking at books alone as well. This week we read seven short books in a row together. He climbed down each time and rummaged through the books and picked one out and brought it back. He will put his toys away when it is time to clean up. We can also watch family movies together and Ken stays on the couch with us all and watches the film, and comments on it. We hung our Easter flag outside and Ken exclaimed "It's Easter!" He recently was searching in the yard for four-leaf clovers and building a leprechaun trap as well. He will also hide things around the house and pretend that he is a mischievous leprechaun. Before starting the biomedical treatments, Ken never pretended anything, could not play properly with toys (he just mouthed them) and broke up all his crayons. Now he gets out paper and crayons and makes real pictures and brings them to us. He hugs us and tells us that he loves us. We can sing and play instruments as a family without him covering his ears and running from the room. Instead he dances and sings and laughs with us. He is eating at least four times the amount of food that he was eating and we are able to sit down together and have meals as a family. He is no longer afraid of food, or trying new foods, which is truly amazing. All who know Ken have commented that he is a different boy. And this is true. Ken is happy and joyful and aware. Our family life is harmonious and "typical" now, and we can go to the zoo and the library and many other things that were too stressful to even contemplate three months ago. Our older daughter has benefited greatly from this ability to have more family fun. I am grateful that such a place as Developmental Spectrums exists, where there is an understanding that physical health can and does affect emotional and mental health. My reason for writing this is to express my gratitude and excitement for the many positive changes we have been able to see with Ken. Our family has seen with our own eyes that autism is treatable, and children can recover, and we are so happy that we took the necessary steps with Dr. Mielke and Developmental Spectrums to get Ken the help that he needed. Sincerely,Alisha, Jon, Katherine and Kenneth |




